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When Friends Miss-align, Miss-use and **Mysogenize.

(**Mysogenize: An act by someone who hates women. Holds prejudice, hatred, distrust. They may attempt to falsely deconstruct your person in order to gain a superiority complex. Probably related to anti-social personality disorder. “He constantly mysogenized me by telling me I over reacted when he cheated on me with six of my friends…”)

Nobody is perfect.

Not me.

Not you.

Why as women do we play nice all the time, placate, appease, discount…?

There is a time to be nice and a time not to be nice. I think Patrick Swayze said that.  Road House.

“Sometimes, Dolores… sometimes, you have to be a high-riding bitch to survive. Sometimes, being a bitch is all a woman has to hang onto.” – Doloras Claiborne.

Healthy people move on. [If it were that easy.] We shed our skin, or scales and slither off. We’re all right. We re-group. Latch onto good friends and forget about all the time wasted in a sea of sticky sewage, sprayed by someone who really needs to seek electroshock therapy.

And one other tip that has taken me 43 years to figure out; don’t remain friends with your ex-boyfriend. It never works. 

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